People do think that ,SORRY always seems to be the hardest word. But for me, 'NO' always seems to be the hardest word. I just don't know the ways, to turn people down by saying NO and this might be the reason why i always got bullied. But at the end of the day not the "BIG bully" who gets the scolding, is the other way round which is, I will be getting lectures from my friends of not being firm, and fierce. Until now i am still wondering, 'How to become firm and fierce', where people will pay you a little more respect.
My bestties will always say, " as human don't be so kind too often, if not people will take advance on you". They even taught me, "How to say NO". But i still need tonnes and tonnes of practice before heading to my new working place. One of my besttie claimed that, the people there are extremely useless, and lazy.They will always take advantage on newbies and worked them like a slave, if they're not firm enough.
That's why my friend will always remind me to be as strict as possible, as fierce as possible, and as firm as possible. Always voice out when i am dissatisfy, and make full use of the word 'NO'. Frankly speaking, this 2 letter word is really giving me a headache and hard time, still I have no choice but to learn to say it out loud and smooth before the real disaster hits and kills me in my new working place. Wish me luck. peeps. ;D
P/S: Dear friends DO NOT get offended, if out of a sudden i say "NO" when you needed something from me.
This is part of my practice, of being firm and strict.*peace*
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